A "Proof of Mom" (POM) pic is a photo that shows a mother actively present in moments with her child. The concept originated from a blog post by Susie Allison, the creator of the Busy Toddler blog, where she shared her conscious effort to appear in family photos.
This concept resonated with many other parents, especially mothers, who often find themselves behind the camera, documenting moments while rarely being in them. By encouraging mothers to actively seek out and participate in family photos, we are ensuring that they are also part of the memories being created.
Why It's Important:
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Preserving Memories – Kids will cherish looking back and seeing their mom in the moments, not just as the photographer.
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Acknowledging Mom’s Role – Moms do so much, and having proof of their presence in family memories is valuable.
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Self-Recognition – It reminds moms that they are part of the story, not just documenting it.
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Encourages Connection – Seeing yourself in photos with your child can reinforce the bond and the love shared in those little moments.
Here are some easy ways to make "Proof of Mom" pics a regular thing:
1. Hand Off the Camera
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Ask your partner, friend, or even an older child to snap photos of you.
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Don’t wait for the "perfect" moment—everyday moments count!
2. Use a Timer or Remote
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Set your phone or camera on a tripod or propped-up surface and use the timer.
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A Bluetooth remote makes it even easier to snap pictures without rushing.
3. Take Selfies with Your Kids
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Quick, casual, and a great way to capture little moments.
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Try different angles—cuddles, making silly faces, or a sweet kiss.
4. Make It a Routine
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Set a reminder once a week to take a photo with your child.
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Pick a "proof of mom" day—like every Sunday or on special outings.
5. Involve Your Kids
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Let your child press the button or tell them, “Let’s take a picture together!”
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They’ll love the interaction, and it makes for natural, joyful photos.
6. Book a Professional Session
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Schedule a yearly family photoshoot where you make sure you’re included.
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Lifestyle photography (at home or in a natural setting) captures real moments.
7. Print & Display Your Favorites
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Seeing yourself in pictures with your kids reinforces the importance of those memories.
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Create a scrapbook or photo album to cherish over the years.
The key is to just take the picture—it doesn’t have to be perfect! Do you already have a favorite proof of mom moment? 😊
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